Pillow Talking’s Review of LETTING GO by B.L. Hallison

Someday Productions LLC and Pillow Talking are pleased to present the following review of LETTING GO — Surrender, Release Attachments and Accept the Present by B.L. Hallison



LETTING GO — Surrender, Release Attachments and Accept the Present by B.L. Hallison

Review by Wayne J. Keeley

Q. What did the Buddhist tell the door-to-door salesperson who came to his home selling vacuum cleaners?

A. Too many attachments! 

Let me state right up front that I am a hoarder. Well, I used to be one. Not someone who was over the top, although my father used to refer to my room as Collier’s Mansion. But I did like to collect things – especially cards. Baseball cards, TV show cards, monster cards – you know, the ones with the dried up powdery stick of gum in the back of the pack that lasted for about two bites. I tried collecting Bazooka Joe comics, but they were too small. I did have a great vinyl collection of Elvis records. (And I’d do anything to have all my baseball cards back again – I’d be a rich man, but like most of childhood obsessions, they went the way of the trash. Thank you, Mom.)

As I’ve gotten older however, my penchant for collecting things has severely abated, if not altogether ceased. Sure, I still have my treasured Mont Blanc pen collection and a few other assorted items. But I’ve noticed that as I’ve matured, I’ve become more of a minimalist than anything else. Maybe it’s coming to terms with one’s own mortality and the ultimate realization that a double-breasted Brooks Brothers pinstripe suit which looked so good on me in the 80s is completely outdated – as are those pulled-up sleeves on my Miami Vice button downs.

Which finally brings me to the subject of my review of Letting Go by B.L. Hallison. To quote Ben Affleck’s character in the iconic Hahvahd bar scene from Good Will Hunting, “I found it a bit elementary.” It wasn’t that the information wasn’t useful or informative. But it was an overview and barely scratched the surface of some of the main topics in Buddhism like the actual techniques and/or exercises that one can use on a daily basis to “let go.” Similarly, there is a lot of discussion about mindfulness meditation and its benefits, but no real tools are offered as to how to implement mindfulness meditation on a regular basis or to integrate it into a daily routine.

To be completely fair, Letting Go is not meant as anything more than an overview; a launching pad, if you will, to more erudite tomes on the subject. And to that end, it succeeds handily. It serves as the perfect primer for a more intense exploration into the subject matter.


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About Stephanie & Wayne

Stephanie is a journalist, writer, editor, and has had several hundred articles published in various newspapers and magazines, many of which still are available online under “Stephanie Lyons Schultz”. She has a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology and was a practicing psychotherapist. She currently is a professor of psychology at WCSU and NVCC in Connecticut. Wayne is an Emmy-Award winning writer, producer, and director. He has produced many programs and documentaries that have appeared on television, and have been distributed to schools, libraries, and home video. Wayne also is a practicing attorney with a Masters degree in Law from NYU. In addition, he is a professor of communications at WCSU. Together, this recently wed couple write, produce, and direct as many of their stage, screen, and TV projects as they can with a full house -- their combined brood of seven! Some of their work has been featured this summer and fall off off Broadway; other work currently is under option. They hope to continue to promote more of their projects in the coming months! Feel free to write whatever comments you like! We want your feedback!